LOVE – a feeling consisted of both happiness and pain. Loving someone is a great feeling and it will give you a Pickering ache when you are departed from your loved ones. Some people in life are always a part of you. Even though you miss them, you never lose them, because you find the memories of time spent together still living in you.
Are you a person with an aching heart?? You want your love back in your life?? Then, here are some helping tips to have your gone partner once again in your life.
1. Try to be the person he/she fall in love with
You both were together for a time that means you can be a great couple, so try to be the person with whom he/she has fallen in love with.
Try to be the person, who was liked by him/her earlier. Use your past memories as a tool and do the things which he/she said you will never do for them. It is the best way to show serious you are about him/her.
2. Don’t beg to take you back in their lives
You need not to move around to them all the time and beg in front of them that you can’t live without them or something.
Just be normal and try to accept the bitter truth of break-up. And keep this in your mind that if you don’t respect yourself then no one will do it. so don’t let yourself on your knees.
3. Casually ask for coffee or drink
Never separate on bad terms, you guys can be good friends forever. You can casually ask for coffee or drink from your ex-partner, but yes try to avoid heavy talks at that time and create a cool atmosphere.
you can also take him/her to the place where you use to go earlier, this one will really melt him/her as the sweet memories sways them into the past.
4. Find more things to keep you busy
Discover your talents and try to make yourself busy into that. This not only gives you a mental peace from your stressed life but will also gives you an opportunity to explore yourself.
This work will make your ex feel that you are more desirable to them. This tip is more helpful to girls as most of the guys want what they can’t have in their lives.
5. Cut-off all communications
It is difficult but a small distance at this time can fill up huge gaps in your relationship. Leave your ex alone for a couple of days and let him/her cry for you, let him realize your importance in their lives.
At this alone time he/she will surely think of your relationship and it may result in the bondage of a stronger relation this time. Act friendly but maintain a distance, make it sound like your life is better without them.
6. Desperation kills attraction
Don’t get over excited at one look of your ex, he is only your if your feelings are true for him/her. Feeling desperate means acting desperate and acting desperate means killing attraction.
So, know the talent of controlling your emotions and yes your tears can bring both of you close for a short period of time but this will not work for long-lasting relationship.
7. Make them jealous
Nothing works more than jealousy, it will seriously work like a magic wand in your relationship. Friends this can be a tricky way, talk to them, have fun with them but yes don’t forget that you are doing all this only to have your love back.
Please make sure that you don’t let these things to work in opposite direction for you. Overdoing of this trick can backfire you and your ex-partner may move on with some other one.
8. Pay attention to your looks
Try to be dressed-up in the way he/she likes for you. For instance a particular color suits you according to them, or any gifted clothes that gives them a glimpse a past.
And girls you always know your charm can take many hearts away, no ex-boyfriend on Earth can be left from your mesmerizing beauty.
9. Ignore them
This will gonna be a hard moment for them, pretend that you don’t have time for them. If you are conversing on phone then don’t talk more then 2-3 minutes and cut the call for any excuse. If he/she asks you if you are angry at him/her then simply smile and say you didn’t do anything wrong…did you???
And if you wanna exaggerate then leave without saying goodbye to them, this will make them feel crazy. This may lead him/her to turn back to you and will help you in a better foundation of your relationship.
10. Try to remember every special date
Some days are always unforgettable, even a single thought of that day can bring a marvelous smile on your face. You should always take care of remembering those forever in your life and if possible try to celebrate it with your ex.
Don’t do something special for them but yes make them feel that the day was a special one for you and will always be..
11. Don’t be available all the time
Try to pretend that now you are pre-occupied with work all the time. If your ex is in need of any help from you them by making yourself a bit strong you should try to avoid it so that he/she can feel your importance in their lives.
But yes if there is a high time demanding your help then you should never deny as he/she is your life. Try to understand the complexity of the situation and act accordingly!
12. Be confident
You need to be a confident person as guys as well as girls are more attracted towards a confident person as compared to the person lack of confidence. Have faith, in you and your true love and no wonder that your ex will be back in your arms. So, go ahead, apologies your mistakes and win the battle of love once again.
Life is too short it is better to live it with love and with your loved ones. A moment of misunderstanding can break life-long relationships. So, give credit to those who have tried to understand you. These tips will work out magically in your relationship and hope you may feel again the warmth of true love.